The Secret to a Flourishing Relationship: The Power of "Turning Toward"

When it comes to building a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship, Hollywood and popular culture have often distorted our understanding of what truly makes passion sizzle. The truth is, real-life romance is strengthened in the small, everyday moments when couples make a conscious effort to "turn toward" each other's bids for attention, affection, humor, and support.

Family therapists refer to these moments as "bids," which can range from something as simple as asking for a backrub to something as significant as seeking help during a difficult time. The key to a successful relationship is the ability to respond to these bids, rather than turning away from them.

According to John Gottman, one of the world's leading researchers on relationships, the ability to "turn toward" your partner is a major predictor of the longevity of a relationship. In a six-year follow-up study of newlyweds, Gottman found that couples who were still married responded to each other's bids 86% of the time, while those who divorced only responded 33% of the time.

At The Awakened Man Project, we understand the importance of "turning toward" your partner in building a strong and lasting relationship. Our team of experts, including psychologists and coaches, specialize in helping men identify and respond to their partner's bids, leading to deeper emotional connections, trust, passion, and a satisfying sex life.

Don't let Hollywood's distorted view of romance hold you back from building the relationship of your dreams. Start paying attention to the small, everyday moments and make a conscious effort to