Improving Relationships

Women Need Emotional Tension

Here's the thing:

Most men seem to not understand this,
or maybe we are just oblivious to it ---
but women want positive tension in their lives (why do you think they enjoy those damn soap operas?).

Your woman wants and needs a man who will challenge her and tease her.

Especially when you have been married for 8 years.

Your woman wants a man who is completely unafraid of her reaction.

And the best way to build emotional tension?

The three T's:

Touch, Tease, and Tell.

Find ways to touch her playfully whenever you are interacting.

Touch her arm,
spin her,
hold her hand,
break the touch barrier,
the more the better.

Tease her in a kind hearted way that shows you are a challenge and may even get close to crossing the line every once in awhile.

And finally, just freaking tell her what it on your mind.

Like i said in yesterday's post.

Don’t play games and don’t bullshit.

Build the tension and be brutally honest.